Im Dating a Black Guy

One of the biggest Stereotypes concerning white girl/black guy IR relationships is that the white girl is usually being used or manipulated by the black guy she is dating.   Well from my experience being around many IR daters, I find this to be untrue. In fact, I would go as far as to say that the opposite has been true in most of the relationships Iv seen. Yes there are men out there that look to manipulate women with fragile self esteems and no sense of self worth, but this can happen to women of any color. As I stated, Iv seen more instances where the white girl is getting the better of the relationship as far as gifts,money, and other items.  This can happen for a variety of reasons , but unfortunately one is that some black men feel white women or women of nationalities other than there own are the ultimate prize. Like rapper Kanye West jokingly said in his hit song Gold Digger,”After he get on he’ll leave yo ass Read the rest of this entry »