Im Dating a Black Guy

You have to understand that their can be consequences for dating a black guy. Iv seen many times that once a white girl dates one, many white men will no longer find her viable or worthy of dating.  I dont know if this is because of  an underlining racism, or an insecurity, maybe my white male readers can answer this if your out there, but Iv experienced it and have seen it happen many times.  They will no longer invite you to their parties, hang outs, or social gatherings. If they do, you”ll forever be the “white chick that dates black dudes.”  Most of my friends have been black anyways so this didnt bother me much, but if you have more of a suburbia click, then you should think about if dating this guy is worth being alienated. Its never cool when your boyfriend becomes your only friend you have to hang with, because you become clingy and insecure and who wants to be that chick.  My preference is towards black guys but this may not be the case for you, so you have to think twice before you take that step.