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Alana, you’re an ignorant person. You don’t realize how racist you actually are. This site is based on stereotypes. No one needs a “guide” to dating anyone of a different race. That’s the exact problem with our society. People are judged by their race, and not by their personalities and/or character.
Perhaps someone should create a site dedicated to dating White girls. The site will offer advice on how to deal with their (stereotypical) personalities. It will acknowledge how most are brainless, spoiled, thinking that they’re God’s gift to earth, with a complete sense of entitlement.
this is my blog and ill write about whatever i want and no im not a racist. if u dont like it then move the fuck on. I know what im talking about from experience and besides its a tongue and cheek blog lighted the up.
Your response proved my point. However, you are very right. There is an audience for this type of trash.
yea i really dont need elitist who think they are holier than thou reading my blog. Its a fun light hearted blog on interracial dating. so what if i play up some stereotypes. Stereotypes are usually based on truths. Any how, youv got some nerve calling my blog trash reality is i hit truths that may not be politically correct, but they are truths nonetheless.
ahh, there are plenty of blogs and books by black women that put down and stereotype black men. Alana is only writing what a lot of intelligent and responsible black men are thinking. It’s nice to be openly loved by somebody.
I agree with L.A. Woman, in my perspective, people are naturally attracted to their own race so when someone of a specific race prefers an opposite gender of a different one, it’s cause they generalize one race and believe that men of one race have something that men of others don’t have, such as in your case Alana. Today’s pop culture if full of trash and stereotypical bull-shit that dumb people fall for as a conclusion to all this.
your comment is uneducated and just shows your level of bigotry. What if I like the color of brown skin? Does it mean I hate my own race? No its just means I dont have any hangs ups about racial issues and will date whoever Im attracted to. Im sure your family has instilled racist views about other cultures so you didnt know any better growing up. Being hateful towards other races is an acquired trait. Had you grown up in a home that did not emphasize hate, you would have no problem seeing the beauty in others.
Couldn’t agree with you more!!! This site just proveds the brainless, spoiled, ignorance within the white community.
This site is mad ignorant
Why do you think there are so many more white girls with black guys than the other way around. Do you think the average white women offers black men more than his own? Why do you specifically like black guys? I ask because you seem to be very knowledgeable about the pitfalls of it.
well iv just always been more attracted to black guys. i guess everyone has their preference, cuz I cant really put my finger on it but their is something about a black guy maybe its their “swag”. Ill get into what we have to offer in a later post cuz i know its gonna get me in alot of trouble with black women who might read my blog but thanks for your questions.
Well as far as the attraction goes, it’s just like the animal kingdom…at the top of the chain it’s always the one who is sexually more superior….it’s no secret that black men have tricks and the right kind of equipment which naturally makes women submit to them more then the others…even the kamasutra says so….
If all you white sluts think that all niggers a hung you are full of shit that is a myth that all the niggers want people (white whores) to think.
haha ill show you a swinging dick
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I’m a Black Guy and I just found your site. I love it and love White Girls even more! Forget what the haters say. Most of them are jealous because they can’t get or keep a good Brotha. I’ve dated Black Girls and White Girls. I am not ashamed to say that I prefer White Girls. Just like some men prefer blondes, big butts, big breasts, long hair, short hair, skinny girls, thick girls, whatever. It is a preference. I’m glad there is a site like like this.
thanx nick appreciate the love. Yea i dont care if i get flack about my preference but i just love u guys maybe its your swag but its just something bout yall that lures me.
“Maybe its your swag?” Lol … 1. Define swag for me .. 2. Only black men have “swag”?, cmon let’s get real only reason your into black men is because every white guy you dated ddint treat you right cuz your either ugly, fat, unwanted or didn’t have any swag yourself
Couldn’t agree more with Cuzzo
There is nothing more beautiful then a beautiful intellectual lady speaking out her likes and preferences especially when it comes to black men….they deserve it…and it’s only beautiful that a lady publicly says it…:-)
Alana, I feel the same about White girls. Just something about you WG’s! I like your hair, feet, the way Black skin touching/penetrating White skin…nothing sexier. I am so glad I found your blog.
I bet Black girls are so jealous of you and this website.
yea i get alot of hate mail and im pretty sure what race the writers r. I will be doing a post about it real soon but im not mad they can hate all they want it wont change my preference for u guys.
I can’t stand you white bitches taking our black men. What do you white sluts have that us Sistah Girls don’t?
lol stop hating everyone is allowed to date who they like. No one is “taking your men”. people choose who they want to be with
get a life and a man. it would alleviate the hate
Lol, we act like ladies…sweet, giving, cooperative. If you want a complete list, ask “your” black men
@Nick u ought to be ashamed of yourself. Chasing after those skanky white hos. Back in the day they would hang blacks lik u
listen shanisha people are going to date whoever they are attracted to, their are many BW dating men of other races, I personnally love white, asian and latin women and is not ashamed of it whatsoever. you need to stop hating and get a life.
Lmao you are as ignorant as ignorant gets! How are you going to speak for your entire race? And how are you going to label an entire race as being “skanky hoes”? I’ve been with ONE man my entire life and yes, he’s black! His color, or my color wasn’t what drew us together. We were friends at first and then started to see that we had more in common and fell in love. You must have obviously lived a cold and bitter life since you’re so mad at the world. Grow up and quit living in the past! You’re the one who needs to be ashamed of herself… It’s people like you that give your race a bad stereotype..
Have you written an article about the different types of black girls that White Girls need to be aware of? I can definitely think of some people like Shanisha that White Girls need to stay away from.
I date White because I think White Girls are sexier. They are more understanding, I like the way their hair looks and smells and I like they way my Big Black Cock looks going inside some White Pussy. Also, White Girls don’t have a problem with oral sex like many black girls do.
Like they say, a big black man on top of a beautiful white lady makes a perfect picture….something to think about….the biggest smile a white lady would ever give us when she is holding a BBC
..something to think about….the biggest smile a white lady would ever give us when she is holding a BBC
“I like they way my Big Black Cock looks going inside some White Pussy.” – I’m a white woman and I loveeee it too
Hey Alana, interesting site you have. I am a black female from the caribbean …IR couples are dime a dozen where I am from…it seems to be a really big deal here judging by the comments you are receiving ….I get flack from women of my own race too because I am light skinned…. Could you add to your list +types of black men) Add the racist…ones who don’t like black women….they will spew hate all the time against darker skinned women and then cry foul when someone judges them by their skin color e,g. DWB Lol I hate it when black men say that they only date light skinned girls or white girls…even though I am light-skinned – those types of comments tell me exactly what type of personI am dating . I am seeing one racist brotha right now about to dump him he sounds so silly. You know how you guys have rednecks well I call guys like that blacknecks. Avoid that type at all costs..they are very insecure and will only use you as an accessory to show off…..I think this is one of the reasons a lot of black women get pissed off too cos here’s man the same color as them telling them that black is inferior and white-light skinned is superior.. makes no sense I tell you.lol
your absolutely right, i should add those type of guys Iv known a few of them who think dating a white girl or light skin girl is some kind of trophy their self hating is disgusting. As you can see by some of the comments and if u could read the nasty emails i get, race in America, especially black and white, is still a big issue. you would think after electing a biracial president we wouldnt have these race issues but we do.
Be real, nothing beats a black woman. White women have horrible skin and age very fast, they have to get botox and face lifts at age 40, sometimes even before they’re 40. White women are flat and unshapely, they have to buy their butts and they also have to buy their lips – they are masculine. White women are plain/ not exotic, hence they buy fake tans to try to keep up with black womans naturally exotic brown skin. In case you didn’t know, whites are not the orignal human beings – blacks are. Whites are mutants; hence theres white women that have albino hair/ skin colors (blonde hair, blue eyes, pale skin) – they’re a mutation. They look far from how a woman should look.
We all know that most black men prefer a woman that will age slowly with silky exotic brown skin, has a natural feminine shapely body: womanly hips, full round butt, natural breasts, small waist… only a black woman can naturally be shaped like this. Feminine facial features – such as full lips. Great cooking skills. These are traits that I’ve noticed white women do not have. Only a few self hatred black men that personally want to be white men themselves do not notice this. I’ve dated every race, including white women. The scent of dog hair, nasty attitude when they aren’t getting their way, flat/ unshapely and fake bodies, fake tans, lack of cooking skills, poor skin, and thin lips/ other masculine features was way too much to deal with.
White women – good luck with your self hatred black men, you are getting the worst kind of black male out there. Meanwhile black women like Michelle Obama and my girlfriend are getting the best black men. Any smart black man would never put the white mans woman above his own. That right there shows you how much these self hatred black men value white men.
Im glad to see you appreciate your own women but im not sure why you took the time to put down everything that you think is wrong with white women that shows your immaturity. You know its possible to lift up your sisters, without putting down others? Never have I put down black women on this blog, as many of my friends are black women. This is just my tongue and cheek take on interracial dating.
damn dude. people can find fault in everyone. dont get me started. just be happy that people can find happiness in anybody regardless of race. get a life
what is really funny …when a black man dates a WW he is weak or a sellout . if a BW dates a WM then its because the white guy is a good man and black men are no good.
You are an ass, plain and simple. There are a million negative stereotypes about how black women look and act but I’m not going to get into them because unlike you sir, I respect all women of every race. I bet you’re the type of ignoramus that goes around claiming white people are the devil, and that they should all be exterminated. People are just that, people. We all have our flaws, some more than others (hint I am talking about you) and we all deserve respect even the most ignorant and misguided of our species (hint hint I am talking about you again) Interracial relationships are one of the most beautiful things in the world, wither it’s a black man with a white women, a black man with a white man or any other of the many different combinations you can think of because these types of relationships bring together people all different kinds of races and cultures and help heal the wounds of the past I have a hard time believing that you would be able to justify your ignorant racist hate speech about white women if your mother was white. Maybe you should turn the mirror around and look inside yourself and consider your flaws before you go around trying to point out others especially when all your doing is perpetuating false stereotypes about another race of human being. If the white women you dated were truly like you say they were, that probably says a lot more about you than the race of the person you were with. People like you do nothing but slow down the progress of positive race relations in this country and need to shut their mouth and think long and hard about what they say before they say it, and maybe just maybe the world will one day be a better place. Just in case you were wondering I am a white male, and proud of whom I am and have never had to put any other race down to feel that way, you shouldn’t have to either.
By the way, Alana – I doubt that black women are seriously emailing you much, if at all. You do know that most of us marry black women, don’t you? Don’t flatter yourself. You’ve been watching too many staged talk shows and movies toeven get that idea.
well “jason” you know nothing about the hundreds of hateful emails I get cuz your “sistas” hate to see a “becky” encouraging interracial dating. Your right most black men do marry black women, but as I stated on an earlier post their are many successful black men who choose to marry outside of their race for whatever reason. I think Kanye west poked fun at this phenomenon with the quote “After he gets on he’ll leave yo ass for a white girl” lol I dont think im better than any other race of women but you cant act like you dont see many wealthy black men date outside their race(kobe bryant,michael jordan,tiger woods,lamar odom,russel simmons,). You can be pro black all you want and more power too you but their are people who dont mind dating outside their race and intermingling with different cultures so I give them my take on it.
This site is an eye opener… I love it.
i appreciate the love i get alot of hate but like i said its just my light hearted take on IR dating. all the hate just shows how race is still a issue in our country
Caramel hit it on the head! I’m too knowledgeable to NOT want to be with a Nubian though.
so you have never dated a white girl? if yes then what was your experience like
Wheres the best place to meet WG
bars are the best place to go to meet one
I have a few questions for you Alana:
- are you ever disappointed when you see a good looking black man dating a woman of his own race. (I say this because I know a lot of white girls who feel they are superior to black women)
- I’ve noticed that white girls who date black guys usually dress, talk and act “urban”. I’m not referring to the handful of rich/famous/upperclass white girls but the everyday white girls. Why is that? Can’t they just be themselves while still dating black guys?
- There are some white girls who like the stereotype of the cool, urban black guy but end up dating a nerdy black guy who they “think” fits the stereotype simply because he’s black (as if to say ANY black guy will do). Basically what I’m asking is why is it that sometimes when it comes to black men, a white girl can look at a black guy and think he is cool and has swagger, while a black girl can look at the same guy and percieve him as corny and lame?
These questions seem mean, but thats not even my intent. I’m just trying to understand.
The white girls you are referring to are the ones who just like the idea of being with a black guy, and so like you said, anyone will do. As Im sure you are aware that, hip-hop/urban culture is no longer just part of the minority community. Its now basically part of pop culture as a whole, and so those that “talk,dress,and act urban” may just be being themselves. However I do understand where you are coming from because there will always be those who perpetrate to fit in, but that can be with any culture. Iv seen black girls who act like ‘barbies” to fit in with uppity white girl clicks. Perpetrators are out there regardless of what kind of culture their trying to fake it in. Im never upset to see a good black man with a black woman. I dont feel that Im better than anyone else just because of my race. I want to see a good man with a good woman period but Thanks for your questions.
I think Tara forgot to consider that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I’m sure some black women could see a black couple and think why is that black woman with that corny and lame black guy.
Wow, the stupidest thing I’v ever heard. Whether the black guy is good looking or not, it’s normal to see one date within his own race just like it’s normal to see a white guy date within his own race, good looking or not. Plus if a white woman is to feel superior to black women, she would usually date within her own race. And a white girl just like anyone, will know how to differentiate a nerdy guy to a cool one, whatever the race. You’re not perceiving right. Get your facts straight.
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Alana , I have a question for you to answer. Im a brother who is interested in dating a WW (White woman) . I never dated outside my race. The problem is how can a guy tell if a WW is somewhat interested so he can go ahead and make the move ? Im hesitant due to possible racial look. trust me , it happened. better question where would you recommend (general places) for a guy to meet an opened minded woman. Like an art gallery or political clubs (be specific)
do you kind get what Im driving at ? A place of comfort zone. I dont like dating someone at work because I have a rule dont get your romance where you get your finance.
Joop…. Hey so first of all thanks for checking out my site! And Congrats on this new “dating” interest! I think the most important thing to remember about DATING in general is CONFIDENCE! The less you look and see color in your attempt to start the conversation the less likely she will as well! As far as being able to tell if a WW or any women is attracted to you is simple and easy. Eye Contact, Full Body Stares as well as maybe some unnecessary small talk! She may be just as nervous as you but if you stay confident, it should be easy to get the conversation going. As far as where I would go to meet more of an “open- minded” crowd, I would suggest a Happy Hour in a popular area. Uptown in Dallas is a great place in my area during Happy Hour to meet local singles! Also there are allot of interracial dating sites online. That may be better route to go for FIRST time experience, since these sites help with the initial “breaking of the ice”
Why can’t you stick to your own race Poop? I bet you’re happy to be living in a free era cause this wouldn’t have worked 48 years ago. My advice, stay with your BW for your own sake, period.
Nice page. This page is very funny. Keep on the good work.
verl thanx 4 checking out my blog
alana , here is a few questions.
1) I like suburban WW (white women that carry themselves in a manner that seems they just came from the corporate meeting or they are from the suburbs. intellectuals …example rachel maddow, jennifer anniston, robin meade and the like ) they usually dont hang out at bars or whatever…where would they go and how likely would they date a BM ?
2) when will you give advice to the BM on such issues as where to meet GOOD women and such. It seems WW or kind of skittish when a BM does the direct approach at a department/grocery store.
note: My favorite places to try to meet women are places like target and at the mall because professionals/yuppies usually hang out those type of stores. anymore suggestions
joop.. I must say I love that you are taking my advice and finding it helpful and coming back for more. Alot of “hard Working” WW wont be hanging out at the bars this is for sure! This is where “local events” come in handy! get your local newspaper and check to see what events will be held in your area! Art galleries, functions, wine tasting events are always popular or try some sort of animal event as well! Also local malls is a GREAT idea and walmart since everyone has to shop ya know! Here in Dallas Ive found that sporting events like events at the new Cowboys Stadium have been a great place to meet an mature crowd! So maybe try some sporting events in your area! Also you can keep an eye out for any good music artists that you enjoy listening to that are coming to your area and try meeting women there! Try a well known restaurant chain in your area (Glorias & Blackfinn) that cater to more of the CORPRATE happy hour on lunch’s!
As far as WHERE or HOW to meet a GOOD women is still unknown sweetie! lol but being more open minded and trying new things is a good start you will not ALWAYS be successful but you just have to keep trying! Even though some may act shy and uninterested doesn’t mean they aren’t sometimes its takes the “extra mile”
LOL. nice. Here in montgomery, bham and other med-size and large cities in alabama things are becoming more open. so i will check things out. you will be slightly suprised how progressive alabama is. maybe atlanta would be a great place but dont live there.
I will take your suggestions.
take care and also make a little article for the guys to help give suggestions on good general type places to meet women. professional women.
Poop, Are you trying to blend in by dating white or what?
This is very sad. This is actually a very racist site. Just because this woman dates black men does not mean she is immune from being so. As a black man, who is a successful trial attorney, this is the kind of woman I try to avoid. She reiterates many stereotypes that would make the folks on Stormfront look like saints.
For instance in her section on how to cook for a black man she lists soul food (fried chicken and greens) as the sole example what black men eat. How is this not the same think as what racist kkk members say? I mean you can’t get more stereotypical than that. In addition, she seems to think that black men go around saying the n word all the time and what about the Aunt Jemima ghetto black woman wagging her finger. Indeed, she likely only dates the caricature of what society thinks a black man is. Most professional black men abhor the use of this word even amongst each other. I actually wouldn’t be suprised if she called an educated black man a “white boy”
In sum, this is why I am reluctant to date white women (at least from America) They either seem to date nothing but white men or are like this woman and totally into the stereotype.(which is why you only see them with athletes and entertainers or they themselves are low class) I am all for interracial dating but for the right reasons. I believe in it only when two people have chemistry and common interests. Why can’t someone look at the character, how one gets along with a person and not simply a societal and media driven image of a person. And no I don’t feel sorry for the dumb black men who get involved with this woman. They are just as much a part of the problem… …This is terribly offensive. I don’t blame the white guys who wouldn’t touch…. I wouldn’t touch you either.
Dear Trial Lawyer,
I’m soooo sorry to know that you have read a lot of my articles and taken them the wrong way! I love my site… if you don’t then you sure have spend allot of time reading my articles… I Don’t understand! Anyways.. I make GREAT money and pay all my own bills and have a degree that I’m currently working on furthering all the while I’m 25! If your “trying” to avoid my type then OK… your lose! You must be more “middle aged” I can tell by your views on things! In my “Cooking for your Man” blog I merely stated some facts! I’m from the South and any “black man” I know from the South will take some soul food ANYTIME! Not a stereotype its the truth! It seems to me that you fit the successful black man who wants to forget hes black stereotype! I’m juss saying.. Also in my “N word” blog again I merely touched on a VERY controversial issue! Some African-Americans use the N word not only as a term of endearment but also as a neutral term to describe almost any person, of any race, or thing. Spewing passionate rhetorical about how senseless it is doesn’t diminish or refute the existing fact. PERIOD! As far as the black women waving her finger, again the article is stating merely facts that BW not all but some will hate the fact that a BM is with a WW.. you got all stereotypical calling her “ghetto and Aunt Jemima” Again your soo educated but have written a whole statement based on no FACTS about me Alana! How do you do trail cases yet are terrible at gather facts lol. I have dated some very wealthy educated back men! And am currently dating a Defense Lawyer here in Dallas! WHO IS BLACK! In my opinion your the one who has these stereotypes! I have never once said all black men do theses things that would be just silly but In general these are some tips and topics that fit PERIOD! I am not into sagging pants and drug dealers THERE’S your stereotype! I date educated BM who have things going on in their lives! To me you make it seem like there are only a HANDFUL of educated black men which is NOT the case! There is good and bad in every RACE period! I don’t know what you think goes on but I will only date people I will be able to be with and have things in common with! It would be ignorant of you to think I just date whoever because they are black… Trust me sweetheart you don’t need to feel bad for anyone who gets involved with me because they sure don’t feel sorry! If they are feeling sorry its cause they aren’t with me any longer! I’m educated, independent, I’m financially stable, I’m funny and fun and all around a great person! So just because you have money as a black man your better RIGHT?? hahhaahaahaa Does it make me such a horrible person because Im attracted to a BM? I get asked out by LOTS of white guys so as far as them not touching me again your very UNEDUCATED when it comes to me or my STATEMENTS! Don’t worry about touching me anyways honey I would NEVER be with such a closed minded man in my life! Thanks for your opinion though I love setting the record straight! And if your offended by my blog sweetheart maybe you should evaluate yourself!
Thanks and much Love:
It amazing to me that such an educated black man would write such a long and hateful response about such a great site! I personally Like your blogs Alana! I must say I would like for you to write a few more PERSONAL blogs about who you are and why you like BM personally! Keep up the good work girlfriend and dont sweat theses haters! PEACE
Thanks for checking out my site! I hope you enjoy my articles and thanks for your suggestions for a more personal blog! Next week I will be adding 2 new blog posts that I will update weekly! One about my life and things I did that weekend and then another will be more on “topics” so I hope you come and check me out next week and thanks for all you love!
“You make it sound like there are only a handful educated black men” …”Some african americans use the n word as a term of endearment” “You sound like you are the one with the stereotypes”
Give me a break!
Please do not lecture me on what it means to be black. If indeed you are white. just because you date black men does not give you the authority to patronize other black people…Spare me. I have been black all my life…..I just wanted to let you know I felt the site was offensive and pereptrated negative stereotypes..I dont know you personally but I was not born yesterday so what I am saying is what I have seen, heard and experienced and no I am not middle aged..Im 27 myself..But people are free to do what they like..you opened the forum up for discussion and I gave my opinion just like you gave yours
here is something to think about……since she pushing stereotypes and you are so offended then why arent you offended at the Tyler perry shows and the BET channel or the hip hop artist uuhhh wait rephrase rappers (hip hop artists and rappers are very different) ? why arent you all up in their grills talking about this.
I hope I get in court and my opposition makes the same logical errors you do.
In other words you dont have a rebutall.
why are you so offended by a white woman who loves to date black men? 80% of black men marry black women, 90% of white women marry white men.
Trial lawyer “ive been black all my life” lol im sorry i found this hilarious. Ive been black all my life too! Lmao
Dear Trial Lawyer,
Dont worry about her they get like that when a BM doesnt want them because now we live in a society where we ‘seem’ to be more equal. By that outright racism does not occur they need something to validate themselves with the myth that they are better. I am a BW and liked by many as a friend, girlfriend etc but WW and some BM see us as monsters. Date who you want but dont base your relationship on hate for BW or put up sites like this. Just as not all WW are carbon copies neither are other races. I would be scared if someone dated me based on colour. Colour is not a personality!! Colour is not success or a skill. Really get over yourself and realise we are all just mortals! Lastly I would like to add! Can you imagine if Obama married a WW oh the media would flood us with subtle news and views that say WW and BM combos are winning and all those BM not all but thr ones that hate their kind would say only a WW could take you to the top job, yadi yah. There would be blogs as dumb as this relating to the WW first lady because you implicitly want to pick a fight with us on how superior you are yawn!! Funny though how everyone is quiet though about the Barack and Michelle pairing and both are very smart not one athlete or musician in sight! There are some silly types in our BM these BM tend to win in the bedroom but never the boardroom but I guess that is how a few of them tend to measure sucess huh? As long as they date anything white they are a success! Losers! I dont hate anyone but I abhor ignorance! I am not visiting this site again I would hate it even if it was a guide on BW dating WW or any other group. Appreciate whoever you are with for who they are not a colour. Also before BM get all defensive you know what I am talking about te subtle digs and tensions the WM has given you since slavery are still there both ways. It is the same for the women and it works both ways I wont lie. They always have something ignorant and stupid to say and BM and BW will always have to fight back same game different cast dont be naive.
“they get like that when a bm doesnt want them” lol how do we get you sound like another bw that hates on IR dating. Please stop being closed minded. Our country will never get pass its underlining race issues if hate is allowed to live on both sides.
To me I feel as though if you don’t like this site then don’t come to this site.. Im all for everyone sharing their views on things but to post a book on an about me section of someone else’s blog saying your “offended” and you wouldn’t “touch” her and you don’t “feel sorry for the guys who date her” I could go on and on is just plain rude and shows A you have waaaay to much “spare time” on your hands and B your naturally a “hater” or do you “lawyer folk” even use that term? I’m a BBW and read Alanas blog daily not only does she post great Celeb news she touchs on REAL topics happening NOW in America that effect EVERYONE! HEY ALANA you need to post a blog on “SNOTTY RICH FOLK” and their closed minded thoughts! =D
Great post. by the way…what is BBW ? anyhoo, like you stated he has so much spare time …it is because he has lost so many that business has become sloooooooow.
Hey there’s no hate coming from this direction, I love and prefer to date white women. I’m currently with a white woman and I couldn’t be happier. I have more than enough choices from women of all races (including black)–but I’ve concluded that I’m attracted to white women the most. If I weren’t with my GF now (who I love for whom she is) chances are I’d be with another white woman.
The laws of our nation provide us with the opportunity to speak freely.
We are free to blog and tweet as we see fit.
This place is your platform.
My question is this:
Why not name your blog “I’m dating a great man” as opposed to “I’m dating a black guy” ?
Does there really need to be an emphasis on race?
I’m sure your guy is fantastic and treats you with love and understanding. So, why mention race or amplify stereotypes that may infuriate your partner?
Why do women need manuals on how to “deal” with men?
Life and Love is all trial and error anyway, lol.
(I hope that didn’t come across as mean.)
PS: Love is for everyone! So, if you choose to date the rainbow, do it because it feels right.
I wish the people of this universe could just coexist…
What is this, one of those lame ‘I love negro’ blogs for unwanted white chicks?
yea prefer to date black men and created a blog about it but im far from unwanted so check yourself before you make assumptions
So why do you specifically prefer blacks to white guys to the point to make it a blog? Did you have a bad experience with white guys or something?
Im more attracted to black guys physically. Iv dated white guys & other races that have treated me fine and im not oppose to dating one again im just more attracted to black men. everyone has their preferences & there is nothing wrong with that. If there is not one black man that you find attractive then thats your problem because they are human just like any other race.
I’m still surprised that several people feel the need to comment and question your preference for Black men. The same people trying to judge you for your preference have preferences of their own. Perhaps they like men with long hair, short hair, tall men, short men, muscle men, young men, blond hair, bald head, big chest, long legs, working man, rich man, athlete, etc.
If people don’t like the fact you date Black guys then maybe they should read blogs that cater to their preference.
I think it’s great you’re attracted to Black guys and you are sharing you’re preference with the world and other women that feel the same way.
I hate how free this country became when I read these multi-topic blogs. The more liberal minded, the more chaotic…
Im not sure what ethnicity you are but if your losing sleep over two humans dating that happen to be a different color then theres something really wrong with you. Interracial dating has nothing to do with the decline of morals in America.
This site is FABULOUS! I happen to be one of those”stuck up rich snooty girls” i live in a small town in oklahoma! bi racial relationships have came along way especially in the “biblebelt” ive been with the same “black man” for 11 years! we go to charity events then go to the hood and see family selling shit on the corner!!! LOVE IS LOVE and real Love is BLIND!!!! come on people its 2011 and whats funny is…..it seems to me that the more racial people are black not white especially on this site!!! so do your thing girl and keep sharing your expierences!!!
Ok first you say you go to charity events and then to the hood to see family sell shit on the corner with you nig… This sounds like pure non-sense/fiction thought by a guy pretending to be a broad… ‘Do your thing girl’… Whoever you are, quit talking black… Not to mention that any American living an intimate lifestyle with blacks is a disgrace to his forefathers and all current people. Call me redneck, I don’t care. I am educated but just status quo which opposes inter racialism and yes, it does bother me to read things like that whether they’re true or not.
ooh here we go again..some ignorant rednecK hating on some white chick who dates out her race. the vast mafority of white women marry white men..if white men are having a problem attracting women.. they have no one but theirselves to blame..
DO HUMANITY A FAVOR BUBBA.. CALL A PSYCHOLOGIST, WIPE THE SEMEN OFF YOUR KEYBOARD, AND GET SOME COUNSELING. OK LOSER?
Race “mixing” has been going on forever. no big deal historically, not until “racial theories’ were used to subjugate nations. For example, the Arabs (and Jews) were in Spain for 700 years. Surely there are many Spaniards with Arab blood.
Many white people mixed with native Americans and blacks during the colonial period in many parts of the “known” land.
One does wonder if “dating” another race can be considered a sign of status or inclusion? You know, like “right of passage.”
And one does wonder why so many “white girls” will converge on a black man when he is the only one at a mostly white event?
I have met black men who, for example, went to college in the middle of Iowa and they might have been from Chicago, these guys had SO MANY white women that they started thinking they were pimps or something.
This CAN lead to problems. The thought that the black (or dark man), is “cool” and “forbidden.” this could lead to a sense of entitlement and a disrespect that a lot of black women (of quality) would NOT tolerate.
So, a middle-class white woman, with a racist, conservative, misogynist father, may very well REBEL by hooking up with the most GHETTO trash black man she can find.
Next thing you know she is treated like trash, the white woman is pregnant, feels like ALL “black people are bad,” and because she now has a black kid (and no more money) she can only go out with more black men.
It CAN become a “vicious” love-hate kind of thing.
But, you cannot blame SEAL for hooking up with Heidi Klum, right? I mean attractive is attractive.
so, if a black woman weighs 200 pounds, does not take care of herself and can’t communicate and is MAD at everyone, and her “man’ goes to work in the suburbs. “meets’ a delicate little white gilr, who will do |anything’ for him “in the name of love,” well…
who would stick with the slob?
But, as far as GENUINE love… hey none of us asked to be born any particular race or ethnicity, and “different strokes.”
I wonder what the white girls, who “date” black guys with “lil dicks,” do about that?
How can you say that so many white women will converge to a black guy at a mostly white event, first a woman has to be attracted to such type just like the owner of this site… Still today at least 90% of white women still end up with a white man. In my experience, women will more often go for someone who looks like they do and will want to have kids that look like them. Similarities attract when it comes to race and social status, espacially for women, who usually are attarcted to men with higher status, education and ambition, which leads to appropriate wealth to run a family. These are biological facts.
Involving the taboo aspect, Taboo doest have much to do in this. Being gay has been taboo for a while. Does that mean that straight guys will turn gay to know how it is? Of course not and the same goes for lesbians. Not everyone lives in a delusional or ‘fantastic’ type of world. The more educated you are, the more civil and proud you are about your identity and where/from who you come from. Study history. Yes you will learn bad things about humanity but you will also learn good ones that make you proud and preservative about your identity. That’s my advice. Let’s not make it look like if it’s worng to be proud of your heritage. White men practiced slavery just like they’ve abolished it so if a black person can talk liberties on this site, he shoudl thank the white man for it if you know what I mean
You can be proud of your race and heritage and still date outside of it. Just because one dates outside their race does not mean they are some self hating loathsome creature. Many times white women who dont find black men attractive is because they have been condition not to, usually by dads and uncles. We are all humans and their is beauty in ever race.
Still you have the opportunity not to date outside your race as well. Its not like you don’t have the choice.
I’m glad the author is in Texas. She should be safe.
Having children with black or any race from a white stand point is silly. Why give up all those good genetics? Look at everything the white race has invented… now look at the war torn – aids ridden cess pool that is Africa…?
some women will have sex with blacks for money, some will have sex with dogs for money….
read this: triplestarnews.com/race
if you became upset and get educated. No race is better than another they are just different.
I knew when i did this blog I would get the comments from the stereotypical insecure white guy who would spew his ignornace and hatred. Thanks for proving me right Victor!!!!
Since when is ignorance sourcing facts? Only white woman with extremely lowself esteem date niggers. When the revolution comes in 20 years all mulattos will be hanged and blacks will be shipped back or killed. In the meantime enjoy your A.I.D.S
And what do you mean by the stereotypical insecure white guy. Now you’re dissing white guys by generalizing that they’re all insecure. You try to be ‘moral’, but by running this site this only causes you to provoke others. If you don’t want any discrimination on your site then close it for God’s sake.
If you live in America, you would know that many white guys have issues with black guys dating white women.(or are you that naive) So this is not a diss. It is in fact reality as illustrated by the victor character above who used the N -word and stereotyped black men as having AIDS. I find it suprising you would rather attack the creator of the site and not the blatantly racist poster. Do you agree with him?
So, Read the history books. It is a historic insecurity.
Furthermore, you do understand that people have the freedom to make websites with whatever they want on it under the first amendment. If you are against interracial relationships, thats fine. You can easily find a neo – nazi or KKK site that will agree with you. However, if you are indifferent, then you can choose not to visit the site. It is a simple solution. Have you ever thought of it?
I also take offense to you saying I should thank the white man for abolishing slavery. Are you out of your mind?
Listen you black guy, don’t start with your first amendment crap… The creator of this site tries to show her morals but only shows how obsessed she is about this whole shit
When did i say all white guys are insecure i said he was acting like the stereotypical insecure white guy.Only insecure white guys are offended by this site because they think its some how an indictment on them that a white girl could be attracted to black men. Get over yourself!! I would date a white guy who treats me right just as easily as i would date a black guy. This site is only because physically im attracted to black men and judging by you and other ignorant people, IR dating is till polarizing.
Hi, I was hoping for some advice. I am a sophomore in high school, and just started dating an amazing black guy. The only problem is, telling my parents. My mother has it in her head that only white trash girls date black guys, and my dad is southern baptist, he was raised to think its wrong. I just don’t know what to do, I really like this guy, and i want my parents to know. Any advice would be appreciated.
to ballet girl. it depends how intolerant your parents are..are their the type who will disown their daughter for dating out their race? generally speaking if your parents are that intolerant, my advice to you is to hide the relationship. tell your parent that he is “just a friend” use protection when having sex. wait until you turn 18. go off to college and date and marry whoever you want.
II have a lot of friends who also date black guys and their parents FREAKED out! Unfortunately your parents may never just be HAPPY for you! But with time they will see this is WHO you want to be with and will have no choice in eventually getting to know him! Advice for this is hard because it just depends on ur parents and if they are willing to see this is what YOU want! Have your guy come knock on your door and have him bring your mom flowers. or something she may like.. your dad as well! Its understandable that our parents generation has their doubts but times have changed! I think TIME will be your best friend on this one honey!
did your parents ever freak out when they discovered you attraction for black men? is so, how did you handle the situation?
And they talk about us like freaks and some BM and BW queue up to date them. I stick to my own!
To ballet girl: What are you thinking about, he’s black! Yes it is wrong to date outside your race, especially for a girl from a proud southern american family. Don’t dishonour your heritage especially when your parents are against it. You will be considered white trash, so make mom and dad proud! You will meet an amazing white guy eventually. Just be patient and leave the black guy for a black girl, period. Blacks only date whites to try and gain higher status. Don’t let them take advantage of you! In this kind of world, you want to have white kids, trust me! There is enough multiculturalism going on which is bad for the American culture that we are proudly brought up to live by. Stay strong and keep your blood line clean!
Why are you on an interracial site giving advise lol. If this type of dating disgust you take your ignorant ass some where else. This well meaning girl needs REAL advise, not bigotry from some inbred. You realize that racism is an acquired trait. If left alone without the outside influence of family people would never think one race was superior to another. You are a disgusting representation of the human race
Oh god I have never been to the south but I have read of their treatment of black people in history books. If this is the thinking of people down south, you guys are really scary
“There is enough multiculturalism going on which is bad for the American culture that we are proudly brought up to live by. Stay strong and keep your blood line clean!”
American culture? I’m wondering if by that you mean the “American Melting Pot?” As in the ideal is all of us mixing together? Besides, my man’s dark cocoa skin and my pale ivory skin will make one beautiful, latte child. He’s the espresso to my steamed milk.
To foreigner: Even the North treated blacks harshly. Watch Gangs of New York and you will see that even blacks were lynched up there. Whether you’re from the south, west, mid-west or north part of America, the tradition and respect of the status quo are basically the same in all parts and are to remain practical. Going against all that is not only wrong in general but it is dishonourable towards your forefathers who bravely established a world where you can grow up and continue that beautiful image that they’ve given birth to.
There is no reason to be rebellious, this stupid ideology and movement was started by spoiled American teens in the 60s, starting off with that hippy non-sense and moving up to other ones. Life was always great in America! Quit the wining! America has so much history and Americans have so much potential if they don’t screw up. Watch movies like Gods & Generals, Gettysburg of The Last Confederate and you will see the tradition, passion and honour that were highly lived by, and it is sad that these values are falling. And Americans should certainly not let multiculturalism break things apart.
So for Miss Balet girl who is lost and doesn’t know what she really wants, keep that in mind.
To Mike: My parents never mentioned black people as a subject whether positive or negative. So quit pretending like you know how things work, because you really don’t.
so what do a racist white girl who has no life expect to accomplish by getting on an interracial dating blog and posting hateful and ingorant comments?..this is a free country and people have every right to date whoever they are attracted to! these member have made up their mind that they are attracted to people of other races and have every right to express their view and opinions! you have absolutly no right to tell anyone who they should date and marry! Once again this is a free country! so please go visit white nationalist blog. I am quite sure you will find their content less offensive. Better yet, get a gun, load it, put it to your head cock the hammer! …pull the trigger!
P.S. any true christian knows that the bible does not forbid interracial marriage. there is not a single verse in the bible that opposes it so stop using gods word to validate your racist beliefs!
Wow in my country people are just people. Why are American so obssessed with things like race?
Just like the bible says that it’s ok to torture your slaves as long as you don’t kill them… It’s a free country in a sense but it still has its boundaries like any country, or else people would go anarchist such as people who share this lifestyle of interracialism that goes against everything there forefathers and foremothers stood for. I shall say Adios Contaminos!
wow, you are stupid! the U.S constitution was written to protect the personal rights and freedom of all americans, there is not a single passage in the bible that allows slavery. stop calling yourself a christian..If you believe in god..you would not be so hateful!
I believe in hierarchy and aristocracy., i.e. law & order, capitalism, conformism and status quo.
Ah its funny to see racist whites loathing the end of white supremacy be yearning for some fantasy 1950′s ideology that willl never come back
really? we believe in law and order also..no one on this blog is breaking any laws you ignorant bigot! are you from North or south carolina?.alot of interacial couple in those states also especially in chalotte and raleigh.
My name is Carolina you dumb darky. Yea well shame on those interracial couples. Their great-grand parents are in Heaven spitting down towards their untraditional and dishonourable shameful descendants. This mongolization is not my America.
Im sure you dont know this being that your an uneducated bigot but DNA evidence has already proven that humans beings originated in Africa. Your white skin is an evolutionary trait acquired over years when your ancestors left the mother land to europe and dwelled in caves during the ice ages.
Wow. I’m new to this blog and I think its amazing that we have so many uneducated bigots running free. I grew up in So. Cali, however my family is from N. and S. Carolina. I’ve lived down there as an adult, although I’m now in the s.w. for school.. I’m 34 and started late. Anyway, I’m 4 th generation mixed, even though for all intents and purposes, I’m white. However I now have a beautiful mixed daughter, I’m a single mom, and although I go where chemistry leads me, I find myself predominantly dating black men. I am far from racist, am open to the rainbow, but my head really turns for black men. And ironically, the white men I’ve dated usually prefer black women. Race is January a color and ppl will be ppl, ignorant or intelligent.
Just a color rather, not January… sorry new phone
just shows our country has a long way to go
once again..why are you on this blog?..your life is so pathetic that you troll around on a internet dating blog..hating on people you do not know and have never done anything to you?are you that pissed off that over some folks you never met in you life because they like to date out their race? GO burn a cross or something you stupid bitch!
Not sure how I got to this site, but I somehow ended up listening to some of your podcasts. No problems here…do you. The only thing that gets me is how you say “Middle EasTREN”. NO. It is EasTERN. MIDDLE EASTERN.
Now that we have fixed that, you can go and have yourself some beautiful mixed babies.
Heritage NOT Hate
This is history. God bless Old Virginia!!!!!!
ok.loser. from one southerner to another, jim crow ended decades ago..the confederacy got their asses kick centuries. many of them by former slaves who joined the union army. welcome to the 21st century! jackass.
Finally someone I can relate to!!!
The white man marches on!!
For someone who supposedly dislikes interracial dating and black people, you sure are on here alot. Are you sure you do not want to date a black guy? I’m starting to think you do or the thought has at least crossed your mind.
…are you even really a white female, or are you a white man? I bet that you are a white man. White women that dont like black men simply would not visit the page. Only white men behave the way you are behaving
Carolina, there is only one reason you’re so damn angry…you ain’t gettin’ fucked! Go get you some big, black dick. It’ll definitely put a smile on that face. LMFAO
The confederacy was only 146 years ago dumb ass! It was from 1861 to 1865. Now there were just as many blacks who fought WITH the confederacy if you didn’t know. Go on google or youtube and type “black confederates”
WTF..99% of the black soldier fought for the union army..ask any history professor. When the confederaderacy became desprate for troop then they tried to recruit black slaves with the promise of freedom. STOP TRYING TO REINTERPRET HISTORY TO FIT YOUR RACIST VIEWS.
Go on Youtube and type Black Confederates. You will be surprised. Or here is a link ( I study History bozo).
It has been estimated that over 65,000 Southern blacks were in the Confederate ranks. Over 13,000 of these, “saw the elephant” also known as meeting the enemy in combat. These Black Confederates included both slave and free. check link to be sure
roughly 10% of the unions soldiers were black..wonder what would had happen to those black confederate soldiers had the south won?
back to the fields picking cotton for master! wonder why conservative long for the good old days!
You’re a disgusting whore hooking up with niggers. shame on you.
Wow thats original. I’m sure she’s never heard that one before
Wow, all this crap is misguided from BOTH sides of the argument. I myself have dated mostly white women and find what SOME of Alana says to be true but what MOST of what she says to be bullshit. Basically, white women (in my experiences) LOOOOVE the kind of black dude that is portrayed on TV. It’s sad but true. Black women should be THRILLED that there are so many white women loving black men these days because, truth be told, most of these white girls are gobbling up all the “undesirables” anyway. They’re not marrying the college educated, “ranaissance” men? They’re taking the Lil Wayne wanna-be’s who will only get them pregnant, beat them, and cheat on them. It is for these facts alone that I have went from exclusively dating white women to dating women of all colors and ethnicities–black, white, latina, asian, whatever.
Also, for all you sistas out there, GET OVER IT! This is 2011, not 1754. If a guy said that he prefers skinny women, would you be all mad and upset about that? No, you’d probably just say, screw him, and move on. You wouldn’t make long, ridiculous posts about his preference for skinny girls now would you. Quit spending so much energy hating on white women/black men relationships. Our predecessors fought LONG AND HARD (some of them to the DEATH) so that we wouldn’t be judged or treated unfairly based on their skin color. That being said, why would YOU, dear sistas, turn around and do the EXACT SAME THING that people like MLK Jr. died to stop.
Bottom line is, some people have preferences–that’s that. Sistas, don’t hate because we black men may choose to date outside our race. Alana, PLEASE don’t act like you can peg black men into your neat little categories. It is that attitude that will always have your subconscious yearnng for the bottom of the barrel when it comes to black men.
lol you think i date uneducated “lil wayne” types. Please im college educated with a good job. I dont date black men who cant at least bring what i bring to the table. Every girl has that time in their life when they are interested in the bad boys but if you have any self worth and responsibility you quickly move on to dating responsible men. Im glad you made your assumptions because i will soon be posting an article regarding this misconception about the type of black men most white girls date.
I am not saying that you are wrong although you do generalize by saying “every girl has that time…”. It’s not every girl, it is many girls. But just like many others are good girls who go for good guys even at a young age. I think this is what the professor meant previously. Some people are sensitive to generalization.
I am a professor of sociology at the University of Oregon. I was doing research (as professors always do) and was drawn to this blog through the key words that I’ve typed.
To Former…: You are surly generalizing here. First off, you surely cannot say that every girl likes the bad boy type. A white girl that likes the hip hop culture will more likely be drawn to that bad boy type for instance but not the average caucasian girl that’s drawn to more of a white culture and listens to rock or country as one example. Without forgetting that bad boys are found in all races and not only through hip hop and black culture. People tend to be attracted to similarities. The theory of how opposites attract is more of a pseudo-science. Urban middle class white folks (men and women) can be more open to black culture since they grow up living closer to it compared to white subburbian or country oriented white folks.
It also has to do with the socio-cultural aspect. There are more white men than white women who date outside their race simply because women tend to be more comfortable dating within their own socio-cultural background while men can have an easier time adapting to this type of difference. If a woman dates outside her race, it can be because they could have grown up in multicultural areas and are comfortable with it. Love also plays a role. Another explanation could be that some black people live in white suburbs for instance (some people call them “oreos”, i.e. a person of colour living a white culture and lifestyle).
As for black/white couples, there are more black men/white women ones, because men are still today, the bigger initiators in relationships.
Now does social class play a role in mixed-cultural relationships? Yes, but simply because of how upper-middle class folks tend to live in the same areas which don’t include as many mixtures, socially and racially speaking. Racism can be a factor and/or respect of tradition can be another, but that is explainable as differences can create disputes. And again, we can bring up the fact that the comfort within your own socio-cultural background plays a role in your relationship interests.
I can agree with Alana that yes, some women do go for bad boys at a younger age and then will realize that they need more of a straight man that they can trust, and by saying that, I do not exclude any race. Although again Alana, saying that every girl is drawn to the bad boy type is not accurate. I can actually name several girls who would be labelled as “cool” but who are dating ambitious guys. A person’s conscience also plays a big role in his/her attraction to someone. A bad girl can often go for a bad boy and good girl with good boy, but the reverse happens as well.
This was my word.
As a “professor” Im disappointed by your assumptions. Never did I say bad boys are only found in the urban/hip hop culture. I just said bad boys in general. As a “professor” you should also know that many teenagers like to rebel against the ways of their parents and the bad boy/rebel is always intriguing to a girl. Hopefully she grows up and realizes that they are not long term partners.
i just want to add something to your comment. most white women who date bad boy date white men who are “bad boys”. In the white community you have the metal head bad boy, the drunk redneck type, the neo-nazi type, the rich douche bag type, the jersey shore guido type, the emo/goth type, the outlaw biker type, etc. most of the negative sterotypes about interracial couple are perpetuated by those who oppose interracial dating. most of these sterotypes have very little if any truths to this. however due to the fact that the “bad boy image is glorified more in the the black media BET, hip-hop stations and among many black professional athlete. there are a higher percentage of black women who are attracted to the “bad boy type than white women. what is more disturbing is that the violent criminal/thug types are glorified far more in the black community than the white community.
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This blog is highly racist.. and ignoring all the bullshit that is written on this blog.. the only person I can truly agree with is what L.A. Woman posted. Her post was the only one that actually bitch slapped the creator of this blog. To say you’re not racist, but to create an entire blog that portrays your sole interest in “black men”… just proves your ignorance.
My question is why do i see many black athletes dating white women but its not vice versa with white athletes? (by the way im a 26 y/o black guy)
Black males and white females have been kept apart for too long, against their natural tendency to come together…now that the barriers have come down, its like a form of natural selection…
Personally, I see it as a lot of black athletes come from universities that are predominately white (from scholarships). The majority of the white women they are with now, they dated while in college. I believe that is why many black athletes are with white women.
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Keep up the good work and don’t let the haters get you down. Why should someone who is not in a ir relationship care about someone who is.It has nothing to do with you at all! It just shows the may insecurities and racist beliefs many people still have to this day.To anyone in a ir relationship i wish you peace and hapiness all the days of your lives!
honestly it may not b an insecurity or racist thing. It may b hatred from a personal experience. I myself am black and have been put second to a white woman by a guy i really liked once. I didnt form a hatred towards anyone for it though but some may. But i agree peace to ir daters. And non ir daters. Peace to you all lets all just accept one another were all gods children
Im a black woman from London England. This is hilarious why do people need tips on how to date black guys?
Inter racial dating is common where i’m from. It aint a big deal. I personally wouldn’t date a non black guy – as they dont appeal to me .
However I have no problem with anyone who wants to.
Our country has a really bad history between blacks and whites and so regardless of our biracial president interracial dating is still a touchy subject. I’m glad that its not a big deal in your country but over hear a black and white couple still turns heads and sparks whispers in many places.
Black and white sparks debate because the history/nature of white people is full of destruction and death. The nature/history of white people is to ridicule, maim, torture,kill anything or anyone who doesnt conform to their ‘man made laws’….it is written and documented by your people….Racism and war the biggest hate crimes are by your people. Its fact and very evident. You are attracted to Black men not because of ‘swag’ but it is forbidden fruit. Its a turn on for you to go against the grain of what your ancestors forced into place. I’m not saying its right, I’m not saying its wrong, do you but be truthful about who you really are and your intentions… I only skimmed a few comments to know what this site is about and Alana if you say you like Black men because of their swag, then that is the dumbest statement ever!! and you should NOT be dating ANY RACE with such an immature, primitive and imbecilic ‘reason’ as that. I would expect that type of answer from a thirsty chicken head who just likes chasing black dick. Say you? Because you have black girlfriends you think it validates your opinions and experiences, it doesnt. They do not have your back just as you dont have theirs. You are envious because you are not black and keep them close to mask your insecurity.You already touched upon black men preferring white girls, is that why you stick with them also to be the black sheep, pun intended. I would have preferred as a Black woman to read that you like black men because of their strength and ability to rise up from the ashes. You admire their courage, tenacity, creativity and most important their mind. You know nothing about what you try to speak of. Sucking and fucking does not make you qualify for any position other than a human toilet.
I think you just wanted to use my site to spit your endless diatribe but you never actually looked at my site. Thats ok because I dont delete comments no matter how irrelevant they are everyone gets a voice.”Forbidden fruit” theory lol. Iv been dating black guys since I was a teen and my mom never objected to it so how was I suffering from “forbidden fruit”?
He joined the Black Panther Party at the age of 16, in 1966. On April 6th, 1968, he was traveling in a car with a few other Black Panther members, when they were ambushed by the Oakland police. They ran for cover in a building nearby. When the police finally threw tear gas into the building, Hutton stripped down to his underwear so that the police would know he was unarmed and he walked out.
The police shot him 12 times. At the age of 17, Bobby Hutton was murdered by the police.
Just 45 years ago, 16 states deemed marriages between two people of different races illegal.
And it is no wonder – eight years prior, the pair had married in the District of Columbia to evade the Racial Integrity Act of 1924, which banned any white person marrying any non-white person.
But when they returned to Virginia, police stormed into their room in the middle of the night and they were arrested.
The pair were found guilty of miscegenation in 1959 and were each sentenced to one year in prison, suspended for 25 years if they left Virginia.
In case you missed it……
It is just an absolute pleasure to read your posts although i believe them waste in this platform.
Honestly, the comments are enough to keep me coming back. Some make me laugh, others make me smile, cringe, chuckle, and a select few make me mad – great stuff for a blog, and I hope your readership goes up.
I would suggest getting one of these lovely black guys or white girls to help you revamp your website up to web2.0 standards, that would make me come back more or pass it along to my friends. Right now it is a little to form-like.
One question for you – why to you respond to the haters? They are obviously coming from a position/outlook that will not change through a little banter online.
This is really an interesting case study about what people are comfortable with. I really would suggest you turn this into a book for anthropological posterity. Oh and I’m a Black man, who comes from a super Black Supremacist ridiculously Afrocentric family that really if you looked at it hard enough would just make you laugh. You guessed it, I date a white girl and I love her because she just loves me, thats it. Its not like were both caught up in how black, white, indian (insert whatever race here) we both are. Plus I definitely grew up in the “ghetto” and didn’t fit in because of intellect and what have you. I blame Steve Erkell for making an intelligent black man a caricature. Also, I have no problem with White guys dating Black women, in fact it makes me happy. It shows evolution. Nation-states draw lines on the same continent and have all the inhabitants killing each-other even if they’re the same color. Look at Africa. “Race” is a socio-economic trap to is a precursor to WAR. You have to get everyone to agree to hate the person you want to invade, but first you have to make them seem like they aren’t human, like you.
New York stand up. I live in one of the largest cultural hubs in the world and I’m telling you if people can’t stand Black Men and White women or vice versa, get ready for a culture shock. Why don’t Arabs dating Chinese cause this much alarm in America. Or Polish people dating Ukrainians (Not Russians) – they may look the same and sound the same but very different. EVERYONE GET OVER IT, THIS MAY BE THE LAST YEAR THE EARTH EXISTS.
As a proud black man, this site is a shameful display of the white culture once again trying to gain dominence over the black race. White people in America are only 2 generations away from the worlds most dispicicable slavery trade, and here we have a white woman wanting recognition and praise because she knows “black” men. What you know is nothing more than any other white person today, educated by MTV on “black” culture. Anyone of my brothers or sisters who stumble onto this site, turn away and ignore this white womans cry for attention as she feels she’s “special” because she can date a black man.
Alsalam alaykum brother and sisters.
This is a good site. I love to see white women or black women dating/marrying a man outside their race.
It is time for everyone to come out of their comfort zone, stop listening to their friends/relatives, and just find true love (even if that person is of a different race/culture).
Fourth Nigger Arrested In Videotaped Beating Of White Man
Nothing but a groidal of fucking jungle running tree humping savages. Niggers will never assimilate into a civilized society.
i think you have the wrong site. this is a pro interracial site, if you are looking to promote your and spew hate racial epithets about black people you should probably look to another site. just a thought
What up sexy, my name is Marcus I’m a late 20s Southern Black gentleman & I must say that I really enjoy your site it’s pretty good stuff. I would love to collaborate with you on a few interracial topics ie IR dating down South & my favorite IR dating in the military & how superiors respond to it. Needless to say I am in the US military almost 6 years now. Perhaps. I could be like a guest speaker or writer gor your site. Just a few thoughts. Well thanks for your time shawty I appreciate it &I everything you’re doing here. By the way you are quite attractive &I cute in your photos maybe when you reply to my email I will send you a photo of me. Sincerely Marcus.
Thanks for visiting the site you made excellent points I think that military aspect is a great idea and would love your thoughts on a guest blog spot email me and we can move forward.
Do you suggest to your white female friends to date black guys, if so what do you tell them? And are any of them that wouldn’t normally had dated a black guy?
Well not really I into urban music and urban culture having grow up around mostly black people so I naturally have more in common with a black man thats why I usually date them. Even though I do love their appearance I leave it to my girls to decide who they want to date but if they are interested in dating one I do try to hook them up with one.
So has any come to you? I’m assuming you don’t just hook them up with a random black guy, but a decent guy, so did you grow up in a black neighborhood since you said you grew up around them?
I didnt grow up in the “hood” if that is what you are asking but there were a lot of black people and other minorities in my neighborhood. I know the stereotype is for white girls to date “thugs” or stereotypical black men but I go for responsible mature ones. Yes Im more attracted to black men, but I wont just hook up with any that give me attention.
For someone who blogs, you sure don’t know shit about grammer or spelling. Do your old, ugly, disease-infested white self a favor and get an education.
I appreciate the love and this is my informal blog not the huffington post keep sending the love my way tootles!
I only disagree with one statement and it was “stereotypes are based off truth”. Most stem from perception and jumped conclusion. But besides that, it’s a tongue and cheek blog, to be mad at its existence is to be mad people have opinions. Overall it’s an interesting point of view and although I don’t agree with everything I enjoy it. Much love peace
where are these articles or post that everyone is refering to in these comments? ( could be dumb question)
I have a ?uestion ! I don’t know if you are still making videos or podcast . But if you do make another one……….. can you make one about IR families that raised their kids to be black. & I was wondering you’re input on that as well
thats a great idea i was having trouble coming up with my next topic but that is a really good idea. I ll get to work on that!!
Pls i need a white women to marry.
This site is fucking retarded. Black guys just love fucking white pussy, I know this because my black friends always say they’re “easy, they’re innocent, and they’re sexy”. I mean they’re just using you to fuck. You have fun with them black guys, that’s all they want! I know this from personal experience with having tons of black guys.
Your black friends are most likely young and irresponsible. There are looking to have sex with easy girls regardless of race, it just so happens that they think white girls are the most “innocent and easy.” Im sure they have probably sexed their fare share that made them come to this conclusion. I however have to much going for me in my life to settle for such men. I hate to break it to you but there are actually responsible black men who find white women attractive and would love to be in a MONOGAMOUS relationship with one.
Hey .. I really need help . I’m 14 and white and my boyfriend is 15 and black. We have been dating for over a year and a half but thing is, I havnt told my mom yet . My dad passed away when I was 6 . My boyfriends name is Christian and he’s my life , we live near eachother so we see eachother often , my mom isn’t racist but she doesn’t believe In interracial relationships . I am scared to tel her about Christian becuase she makes racial or stero type remarks about them , I told my older sister (who is 22) she likes Christian an told me to do whatever I feel , and Christian makes good grades , and treats me better than my mom does , I don’t wanna have to hide from her anymore , I don’t want a secret relationship , but regardless when I’m 18 I’m doin what I want and she cant stop me , I would rather her just accept the fact that he’s always there for me , ( me and Christian have known eachother an been best friends sense 2nd grade )she think I’m dating a white Rick guy named Trent , but I feel bad and don’t kno how to tell her … Help ?!
Kara I know how hard it can be being in an interracial relationship when one or more parent doesnt approve. You have to remember that many older people are stuck in their ways. They are from previous generations that were taught wrongly that race matters and so its hard for them to give up this notion. It sounds like although your mom loves you, she falls into this category. Keeping secrets from parents is usually never a good thing. If your boyfriend is truly good to you, and your grades and behavior HAVEN’T changed, then you should sit down with your mom and tell her the truth. See if your older sister will be their with you so you can have strength and courage. The key is that she doesnt have any negative examples to discourage your relationship like say your grades have been dropping recently, so I bet its this new “boyfriend” causing the problem. If she doesnt have anything to discourage it, and she sees how happy he makes you, then a loving mom will eventually get on board. Also I dont know if you have been having Trent pick you up, then meeting up later with Christian, but what if Trent begins to get real feelings for you. You dont want the guy playing your pretend boyfriend to get hurt in this situation. Since you have known Christian for so long I think she will understand even though it may be tough for her to swallow at 1st.
Well first off Alana, i love your site and keep up the good work..As for the rest of you, who are you to try to tell anyone who they should date, this is 2013, people can date whoever they want, stop living in the past. Beauty is colorless, me personally i love women of all races..Get a life people!!
As a white woman dating a black man for the first time, I LOVE YOUR SITE! However, you would come across as way less ignorant and far more intelligent if you used spell/grammar check before you posted anything. I know when your in a huff responding to all these haters, its the last thing on your mind, but it would go a long way. For example, you frequently use the wrong form of “course” when you write to readers “of coarse.” Coarse spelled COARSE means rough, and you mean “of course” as in “obviously.” Otherwise, keep up the good work!
Haha. Thought I would call out the irony in the fact you are correcting her on her grammar and you used ‘your’ instead of the correct form of ‘you are’ which is ‘you’re’.
Oops, my bad. You’RE correct, I missed it in one spot. I was making a friendly suggestion to calm the haters. But ya know, you’RE username clearly indicates your superior intelligence.
Some ppl are waaaay too insecure. I’m a 54 y/o BM who has seen more racist crap than most of the folk who’ve posted replys. As evidenced by many of the posts, racism exists in ALL races. To the white racists, one reply stated that DNA showed that we are all linked from one race of ppl. Life originated in Pangea(that’s one great continent, where all the current continents originated). When the continent now known as Africa was joined, it was turned sideways. The point where scientists say that life began in the center of Pangea is now known as Kenya. Life was lush after eons of radioactivity & lava flows. As the land masses started to drift, humans became separated & adapted to their environment. So you see, the race that you all eschew as being better came from WHAT? DARK SKIN!! Also while you spout your rhetoric you’re also better at killing! You racist whites talk about blacks being animals but if you look at history (yours by the way), you will find that 98% of the mass murderers in history have been WHAT? WHITE PEOPLE!!( Jack the Ripper, Hitler, Son of Sam, Jeffrey Dahmer, Eileen Wournos. NEED I go on? If anything, the other races should be afraid of whites instead of vice versa. You are your own worst enemies not us.
As for Alana, I commend you for following your heart but pls dont say its because of “swagger”. Swagger btw is another word for confidence. You know this but a lot on unenlightened don’t. In this hypocratic country you have to spell stuff out for some folks. To the young lady who kept harping on “her America”, this land ain’t yours. Your forefathers took advantage of the kindness of another people (NATIVE Americans) & tricked, stole & murdered to get what they wanted by invading their territories. You then called them savages when they fouught back & damned near drove them into extinction. Their America had them living of the land, hunting for necessity not for sport & living in harmony with nature. We ALL, blacks, whites, asians & others would do better for each other & nature if we adhere to that philosophy.
Finally, to anybody calling themselves “Christians”, Jesus said to love your brother as you would yourself. This hatred because of race, color, religion or whatever is against what HE taught. That’s why peolple like Bill Maher exist because PEOPLE interpret the Bible to suit their needs. Alana has told you all many times hat this was a tongue-in-cheek blog. Lighten up folks before something happens to the human race to make you lighten up. Live & let live and as Tupac said in a song, “Only GOD can judge me!” Peace & I’m OUT!!!
Why here are so many haters? White males who like to bang with Asian girls are not entitled to blame black males. What a double standard…I would like to appreciate black guys!
Black guys are truly the garbage of American society. Look at them: Can’t speak an English sentence, have IQs in the low digits, dress like clowns, pants hanging off their asses, are loud-mouthed buffoons, half of them have a criminal record or are infected with AIDS, and lots of them don’t have a job, PLUS lots of them are so ugly they look grotesque. Asking why white girls would go with these turds is like asking why someone would eat sh-t and say it’s ice cream. The answer is that the dumb bitches have been brainwashed by the liberal media. From the time she can crawl to the TV, a white girl is subjected to endless lib media brainwashing which hypes blacks and runs down white guys. The media acts as a billion dollar unpaid pimp for black guys. The black guys specialize in exploiting the naive stupid younger white girls, who will end up estranged from their family, beaten, infected with AIDS, pimped out, or abandoned with a black baby. In any case, their life will be ruined. No decent white guy will touch her with a stick. THINK ABOUT IT naive white girl – once you go black, we don’t want you back. You’ll be used and then dumped, and any white guy you hook up with will find out about it eventually, and drop you like the used toilet paper you are.
lol most of the images the media shows of black men are negative. I dont know why you are so insecure, but I did a blog on this trying to figure out why white men respond this way. Any how i wish you the best and hopefully you can remove the hate from your heart.
I’m not insecure, and I laugh at silly used brainwashed sluts like you. The overwhelming image promoted by the lib media of black guys is king kong studs of the universe, and they endlessly pair them off with white women, to train intellectual cyphers like yourself. Real life black guys are in fact short or tall, fat or thin, athletic or nerds, etc etc, in contrast to the media vesrion. As EVERYONE but brainwashed sluts knows, they are on average the worst garbage in our society, they fill the prisons and unemployment lines, but they are able to attract fat white girls with low self-esteem.
What media outlets are you talking about? Even on the most liberal channels all I see is them showing black men getting arrested or suspected for some crime. I dont know where you are seeing all these positive images making black men look like “king Kong” your insecurities are just too much. Please better yourself and stop worrying about others
You miss the point, dumb fat white slut. They only show black guys as criminals when they can represent them that way as super macho and tough. When they need to portray, say, a child molester, guess who it’s going to be – duh, a white guy, even though the FBI unified crime stats show that it’s black guys who are the biggest child molesters. Nowadays it’s TV black guy cops chasing down evil white guys, although anyone in contract with reality knows in the REAL world it’s just the opposite. Sit down for three hours in front of the TV and LOOK. Look at all the ads where they pair off white girls with ugly black guys. YOU should better yourself – lose the weight and work on your self-esteem so that you don’t have to settle for the garbage of society.
I am not fat. You are very insecure and pathetic and there is no way you have a girlfriend. You live in your own delusional insecure world. Even the most conservative person knows the media only shows negative images of black males. You need to get rid of your hate and maybe you can one day get a girl GOOD DAY SIR!
Yaaaaaa riiiiiight you’re not fat!! LOL. Everyone has seen the black guys towing around you lard tubs. My gf, who unlike you has self-respect, has been with me for three years. You live in your own little brainwashed world – the lib media operates you like engineers operate robots. Your reverse perception of how the media promotes black guys only shows how brainwashed you are. You’ve wrecked your own life, so you try to promote your own miserable situation with other low self-esteem girls or ugly fat girls, so you can have company in the pathetic situation you are in and will never be able to leave. Even TALKING with a skank like you makes me feel like taking a shower. LOL.
my pictures are on here where are your pictures? You are just another insecure internet troll. No way you have a girlfriend no girl wants to be with an insecure man keep pretending lol
I wasn’t even going to comment, but I had to because you really are an idiot… You’re so indoctrinated that you can’t even tell what reality is … Look at all the commercials of black guys (the brains) explaining things to the retarded white guy .. This is especially with the allstate commercials or any insurance company for that matter .. They’re all the same, nice looking well dressed intelligent black guy, explaining what insurance is to a retarded white dope,and all the white woman fawning over the black.. NOTHING could be farther from the truth.. Blacks don’t even get insurance unless someone else pays for it ..You have to be blind not to see it .. That is what Jake is trying to say.. This is brain washing to the max, with little white girls watching T.V see this, then you know the rest .. Wake up, you’re nothing but a loser if you have to date blacks, I mean really, they don’t look like monkeys to you ? How do you get past the thick bluegums, the double barrel shotgun noses the pubic hairs on their heads the skin the color of shit not to mention the soulless eyes 99% of blacks eyes are BLACK ?? You’re truly disgusting.. Why not post a picture of yourself on your blog ??
Iv dated plenty of guys from my own race but I hate to see such insecure men from my race like you guys plus you are very delusional about media images. I have a journalism degree, I know what Im talking about. Your insecurities about yourself are glaring through your ridiculous perceptions about our media. Any how, my pictures are on here, I dont internet troll and hide behind my keyboard.
I saw your pictures – all fat and ugly hos. LOL!! Stinky-crotch skanks with blacks that look like monkeys – the whole thing is HILARIOUS!! HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!
After all, everyone has a right to clinically retarded children!
Note that there’s a good chance that if a low self-esteem white ho didn’t do this site, a black guy pretending to be a white girl did. They specialize in this kind of self-promotional internet dreck.
I dont have low self esteem but you are very insecure
Hello Alana. I feel very compelled to write in after having read and scanned through this message board as it pertains to your site. I appreciate your blog for what it is, I enjoy and I’m entertained by it, informed by it, and I agree with your stance on a number of subjects or topics represented within it. I too believe in the freedom to choose my mate, or my lover, or my friend, etc, and do not feel the need or desperation to stick to only my own specific ethnic class as some seem to adhere to and profess to others. I favor the ability for anyone to indulge in interracial relationships and believe that it is no one else’s business nor their right to attack any person who chooses such a relationship.
But it is very apparent that racism against people of African-American ethnicity especially, but also other similarly related races, is extremely live and well in the USA. A first world nation and power such as the United States should be more knowledgeable, understanding and logical then some of it’s citizens here have seemingly embraced in this message board. Thank heaven I live in Canada where we take a much more openminded and blalanced approach (like many other civilized countries around the world do) to various ethnicities and do not look down on them or on interracial relationships, unlike the small percentage of the populace which insists on continuously condemning people and their culture.
It is to them, I address the remainder of this message.
Hatred is an ugly, blind and infectious disease, it is often ignorant and cruel, lacking real intelligence and is usually without integrity, empathy or compassion. Individuals using false statistics and blatant lies, innuendo and rumor, malicious attacks and defamation, all to further the misguided belief which feeds their hatred. It is disgusting, and people need to look at their own history and lifestyle choices first a lot more clearly before casting stones in some one else’s direction.
No one says you need to like everyone, but, go so far as to hate them to the degree some people have obviously stated on this message board with a high degree of enthusiasm as they have demonstrated is truly sickening. It saddens me to picture that those who wrote in calling down black people to varying unfair and inaccurate degrees are out there no doubt raising children and passing that extremely negative bias on down to the next generation of individuals who may tragically carry that same ugly torch forward with them, further enabling racism to stay alive and well in America.
Stop it. Think before you speak, and use your brain and not your emotions. Ask yourself if just maybe, you could be wrong about how you think and view others around you instead. For I doubt you who cast these stones of hatred are perfect, live without flaws, and never make mistakes in life. If you can not stand it nor remain silent, then why even place yourself in a situation that only serves to aggravate yourself and others and cause tension, anger and grief to some in the process.
It is clear what the subject matter of this site is about, it is not like you stumbled in here by accident and became shocked by what you have read and observed. You chose to be here, like you chose to write in to this message board to spill your poisonous words attempting to wound others intentionally.
Why? What is the point? What do you who write in to verbally abuse and attack the host hope to accomplish with your words? Do you think you can actually win something, that this is a debate? Some battles have no victors. This is one of those scenarios. So just stop, exit the site, and go to one that doesn’t offend your sense of reasoning. Life is far too short to spend in fighting, instead your time is best served going to a place that makes you happy, somewhere you enjoy. Unless you like to try to cause others pain…
well put thanks for your support
You’re very welcome Alana! I admire your strength in the face of so much desperate opposition. Some of them are rather laughable and quite pathetic, but most are just mean-spirited, bitter, ill-informed and purely racist in their feedback to you. I find it particularly interesting as to why they are even on this site to begin with, I mean why go view something that one doesn’t like, enjoy or can relate to. Unless they secretly do… then in that case I wish they would just confess it and come out of their dark closet finally, rather then trying to repress their attraction to black men.
Black ghetto garbage – the last resort for the fat, ugly, brainwashed white girl. HA HA HA HA
very insecure very pathetic yet very sad
You don’t have to describe yourself – everyone can see what you are.
Notice how the dumb slut takes pains to tell everyone she’s dated lots of white guys. Did she ever start a blog called “I’m dating a white guy”? Why is it that she has to announce to the world that she’s dating a black guy? If it doesn’t matter who you date, why is she making a big point of it? She’s making a big point because as an ugly fat girl, she’s never been the center of attention. She’s one of those sluts who drags around a black babboon to get attention from everyone. If people didn’t notice, she’d be disappointed. About that “swagger” crap – that’s BS. By “swagger”, she means acting in an obnoxious buffoonish way. If a white guy acted that way, he’d be looked at like a moron, but if a black guy does, it’s “swagger”. Why the double standard? Because white girls, the stupider kind, have been brainwashed from infancy to buy into the liberal media hype.
WoW! Jake pretty good! some of you guy’s got true talent in expressing yourself.
If Alana topic caused this much interracial slam dancing, I think she achieve her goals with flying colors…..Yes let all the colors fly.
i have a huge black black cock and would really lyk to insert it a white pussy.hook up with me on my email address
this is a relationship blog not a porn site spare us the graphic troll comments
Bee, check out IDBG – she has no standards and no self-esteem – just what you’re looking for!
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