Many readers have asked me where they should go to meet black men. Well.. It varies and depends on the type of black man you’re trying to attract! It also depends on where you live because every area is different. Here are a few good places in general where you can find a good man.
COMEDY CLUBS- are a great place to meet black men. Lets say you go see a black comedian that has come to your town like Kat Williams, Bruce Bruce, or Dave Chapelle, you will be probably meet lots of singles all having a great time with lots of laughs. Most of the time they serve drinks at the club where they are performing, which makes for an even more relaxed and social group of people to mingle with.
CHURCH – Whether your Christian, Muslim or New AGE, many black men believe in a GOD! I have spoken with many women who say they met great single men at church. I have never personally gone to church intending to meet a man there but to each his own! Churches often have singles groups or seminars where the teach there single congregation members what to look for in a life partner. This can be the perfect time to mingle and find someone who you are attracted to.
THE GYM – This is a great place to meet black men too. A lot of black men are athletic and like to work out, play the “eye contact” game a few times and he will be up to talk to you eventually if he is attracted to you. While you are waiting you can stay fit lol.
SPORTING EVENTS – This is a super good one and my personal favorite. Most straight men LOVE sports! Me and my girlfriends go to Mavs and Cowboys games a lot here in Dallas, and one of my friends just got married to a guy she met 3 years ago at a Mavs game! There LOTS of single men there so you are bound to bump into someone interesting!
SUPER MARKET – Everyone’s gotta eat right? The Super Market is crawling with singles who are shopping for themselves. Avoid self check outs because you never know who you will meet standing in line waiting!
NETWORKING EVENTS – Ladies you know those flyers you see in the break room or lounge area at work? How about those emails encouraging you to come socialize and network with others in the same industry at there convention? Well take them up on the offer! Start attending some of these events even just once or twice a month.. Conversation is all but effortless because of occupational similarities.
AIRPORTS – If your someone who travels a lot whether it be for business or pleasure, an airport can be a great place to meet singles. Nowadays you have to be there hours before your flight so you have to sit at a bar or restaurant near your gate. Hey maybe you’ll get lucky enough to meet someone who is also booked on the same flight as you!
These are just a few general ideas! Again as I stated before it varies from city to city but these things Ive listed will definitely work in most! Talk to yall soon!